Host. Collaborate. Make new friends.
A collaborative event-planning app that turns hosting from a solo burden into a shared experience, and makes gathering feel as effortless as attending.
People are hosting more than ever, yet the act of hosting is heavy with stress, while real-world connection keeps slipping away. Soiréa lives in that exact tension.
Sources: Article hosting survey (2,000 U.S. adults) · ButcherBox hosting study · U.S. Surgeon General's Advisory on Loneliness & Isolation, 2023.
Today's tools are built for inviting, not hosting. They send the invite and stop there, leaving the host to juggle the guest list, budget, food, tasks, and vibe across a dozen disconnected group chats and notes apps.
The result is a paradox: the people most excited to bring others together are the ones most likely to burn out doing it. Guests, meanwhile, arrive unsure of what to bring, who they'll know, or how to help.
Real friends, real opinions. User interviews reveal the needs, frustrations, behaviors, and motivations that assumptions alone can't capture.
Using a structured moderation guide, I ran 1:1 conversations with hosts and frequent guests to understand how gatherings actually come together: where the stress concentrates, what falls through the cracks, and what would make people host more often. Three themes surfaced consistently:
Hosts carry an invisible mental load. Everything lives in their head, not a system.
Guests want to help and connect, but are never given a clear way in.
Planning is fragmented across chats, notes, and spreadsheets. Nothing is shared.
“There's an uncertainty before every event… What should I bring? Will I know anyone? Will I feel comfortable there?”
“Hosting isn't hard because of the event… it's hard because everything lives in my head.”
I benchmarked the category across 15 dimensions. Each tool nails a slice (broadcast reach, playful invites), but none treats hosting as a shared, end-to-end system.
| Dimension | Facebook Events | Partiful | Soiréa |
|---|---|---|---|
| Core purpose | Broadcast to large networks | Casual, fun invites | Hosting as a collaborative system |
| Tone | Generic / outdated | Playful, trendy, meme-y | Elevated, elegant, intentional |
| Guest experience | Passive RSVP | Interactive (comments) | Active participation & contributions |
| RSVP system | Going / Interested / No | Yes / No + engagement | RSVP + input layers (dietary, roles) |
| Collaboration | None | Light (chat + vibes) | Core feature, shared planning |
| Planning tools | None | None | Budgets, checklists, vendors |
| Emotional value | Low (transactional) | Medium (expressive) | High (thoughtful, inclusive) |
| Host mental load | Very high | High | Reduced via system + collaboration |
| Sweet spot | Large, casual events | Small to mid gatherings | Intentional, designed experiences |
Soiréa reframes every part of the experience, from a solo, scattered chore into a shared, structured system.
Early thinking on paper, before pixels.
A warm, elevated visual language that feels soft, structured, and calm, brought to life across the core hosting flow. Tap any image to enlarge.
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Walk the full hosting flow, from invite to collaboration, in the interactive prototype.
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